Just last week a cold rain lashed at the phlox and daffodils bravely poking their heads out of the ground. Sleet pelted us in sideways sheets for good measure. I was longing for warm weather, and at last it’s here. Every living creature is feeling restored by sun and blooms. My horses turned their noses up at their hay this morning to seek out bright green shoots of grass in the paddock. Pepper, our Jack Russell, has dirt up to his eyes from digging out mysterious creatures as they emerge from the softening earth.
Spring brings changes, and this year I’m making a big one. I’m closing my retail shop to focus on selling at various antique shows and horse shows. I’ll continue selling online at www.antiquesetcetera.net, and I’m available for interior decorating projects large or small. While I’ve loved owning a store, I’ve decided to redirect my energies in a way that allows my schedule more freedom to ride my horses, garden, and enjoy my family.
Life is full of unexpected twists and turns, isn’t it? At this point in life, I resist change. It’s inconvenient at the least, and downright frightening at its worst. Yet each major detour is an opportunity to edit, refocus and maybe try something new. I’m making a list of what’s most important to me and tossing out what’s not on the list. On the list: spending more weekends with family, playing my guitar, teaching my young horse to jump a coop, taking time to be still. Most things on my list cost little or no money. What purchases I do plan to make (such as an antique French bed) I’ll purchase thoughtfully. I’ll buy antiques, locally grown food, and as few things made in China as possible.
For the first time in years, my husband and I are putting in a vegetable garden. Besides some economic benefits, I know we’ll get so much satisfaction from growing our own produce. There’s nothing like a real, homegrown-tomato sandwich or pesto made from my own basil. The garden will be the only big project I take on this summer; while there are dozens of things I really should do around the house (repaint the living room, repair the hole in the wall my son made with a lacrosse ball, reorganize the laundry area, clean out the attic) I think I’ll put those off till fall. The last item on my list, “taking time to be still” is more important right now. Like a fresh picked salad, time is delicious.











































